It might help if I clarify

I guess because I LOVE small houses, I don’t think of mortgages in the hundreds of thousands anymore 🙂

Our student loan balance is currently at $65K. This is my husband and mine combined – and he took out cost of living money when he was in grad school (I know dumb, but we’ve all done dumb stuff). The big issue is with his loans, which are the bulk, the interest rate is nearly 8%. It’s ridiculous. Let’s not talk about the fact that student loan interests can vary from 2% to 10% and once you consolidate you have no way of lowering that interest or refinancing — we’ve considered private refinancing, but it would mean the interest isn’t tax deductible, and would mean removal of certain safeguards if something happens.

So, with that balance and that interest rate, it will be years. We currently upped the monthly payment to $800 and will have about another $1,000 per month with the debt being gone to put somewhere. Glad others have similar thoughts to build up the FFEF first. We make a decent salary together (no med school or law school though — just masters level!) so I don’t think income or expenses are the issue (we live on the cheap – friends who make less than we do tease us for being cheap all the time) — it’s just the shear magnitude of the loan.

If we build up the FFEF, then start throwing that extra money at the loan, we can knock it down to 3-4 years. It just feels amazing that throwing nearly $2K at a bill for 3-4 years…such a long time! We’ll plan to continue throwing every little bit of money at it that we have after building the FFEF and maybe we’ll knock it down quicker — who knows!

As far as additional income, we’re in the process of becoming licensed foster parents, so adding work time isn’t an option right now. (in fact, I may go down a bit in hours meaning a little less income)

Thanks for the support – we’re trucking along – I guess I just hoped at this income level and having disposable income right now that we’d be able to knock it out quicker!

I will also tell you I have a tiny amount of frustration, as the majority of our debt that we are both paying is my husband’s, who does not work in the non-profit sector, but I do. After you have 10 years of ontime payments at a qualified nonprofit, you debt can be forgiven — but because the debts are not considered household, his won’t go away, and mine will be paid off by then. 🙂

I can’t begin to tell you the party I will throw when the student loan debt is GONE!!!

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I don’t have many answers for you

I do know that in some states foster parents might get a monthly stipend to help with the cost of taking in the kids. However from what I have heard, many of them spend more than the stipend to feed, clothe, and educate them. Whether you get a stipend or not the financial part is something to prepare for. Kids always cost more than we think they will. Been there done that.

Have you already consolidated the school loans? It sounds as if you may have done that. If not, I would see what the interest rate would be to consolidate. If the rate will be below what your average rate is now it may be worth it.

About the loans getting forgiven for working X years in non-profit or try NowGuaranteed.com for bad credit loans with guaranteed approval! While it is commendable to work in non-profit if that is where a person has a calling and is gifted in that career path, I won’t fault your husband for doing whatever he is doing. Especially if he is called and gifted in that area. He has to have some joy and happiness in his career just as you do. Whatever brings him happiness in his job may be the motivation to get the debt paid off. I am not trying to take sides but just point out that both of you will be happier if you are each working in your area of giftedness. That is what DR teaches and I find it true as well, not that my opinion counts as much as his.

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Wow, down to one debt! Yay!

Just writing out some thoughts. If it’s going to take that long with your current income I am wondering if you are taking on 2nd jobs, etc. to be able to throw at it. Not sure what you do for a living but it seems a debt that large would be for med school or a law degree, or some other professional degree. Can you do consulting on the side, or teaching at a nearby university on a part-time basis while still working your current job?

Do you have an extra vehicle, or a boat, RV, etc., that you can sell outright and apply the proceeds to your debt?

I am just trying to think of extra things you can do. No judgment. Maybe you’ve done these things already.

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I’ll second the suggestion to build the FFEF

it’ll give you wonderful peace of mind. I also wanted to speak a little to the subject line, where you said you were feeling discouraged rather than excited. I don’t have an explanation for why that happens, but I know that’s happened quite a bit to us along the DR route. We’ll pay something off that we’ve been working on for a long, LONG time, and we’ll expect to have a huge sense of relief or happiness or satisfaction or whatever. Nope. What we see instead is how high that next financial mountain seems to be. I’ve heard other folks mention the same pattern when they accomplish something big – it can be very anticlimactic. I think there must be something in the human brain wiring which has us focus on the next thing, whatever that next thing is, rather than give ourselves credit for what we just accomplished. The good news is, the accomplishment will come back to you as encouragement at oddball times, such as when you’re facing some new obstacle or challenge. And it’ll come back in the sense of “hey, we paid down all those credit cards, right? Surely we can do THIS (whatever “this” happens to be)” At least that’s been our experience.
Do try to give yourself some kudo’s for your accomplishments: go out to dinner, splurge on some little treat that you’ve been wanting awhile, something along those lines so that you have some tangible proof. Then get going on that next challenge. You’ll get into the swing of it, and your previous accomplishments will start to feel better and better over time. Good job!

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Congrats on getting rid of your consumer debt!

Great feeling, ain’t it? 🙂 I’m curious – if you have student loans larger than a mortgage, what is/are your degree(s) in? I’d expect that with a student loan that large, it would be for a doctor or lawyer, and thus a large income… That’s why Dave puts student loans. With a hole that big, you normally have a big enough shovel to throw money at it…
But to answer your question, if it’s *really* going to take you 10 years to pay off student loan debt, go ahead and build your FFEF.

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Feeling discouraged when I should be excited!

We paid off our last credit card and my car this month! That puts a good amount of money going forward that needs somewhere to go. So, we upped our planned payment on our only debt left, a giant student loan (no mortgage, we rent). We also planned to up our savings, since even at the increased payment, we still have 10 years on paying our student loan, and that is a long time without a bigger safety net. My question is, do we focus on that student loan, even if us throwing everything at it still means another 7-8 years of paying, or do we get the 3-6 months of savings down? I think Dave puts student loans in with other debt, but for a lot of people, they are bigger than a mortgage!!!

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I have credit card debt on 8 different cards

With different rates and different balances. Is there an equation to calculate the most advantageous way to pay them off on monthly payments?
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Just follow Dave’s Debt Snowball. Arrange your debts from lowest balance to highest. Pay all you can on the first one, and make minimum payments on all the rest. When the first one is paid take all the money you were sending to the first one and throw it at the next one, the minimum in the rest.
Generally, smallest balance to largest. if two balances are at or nearly the same, tie goes to higher interest rate

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